How To Deal with Having a Broken Family

Hi Everybody! :)

For my first blog entry, I want to start it with a 'How To' Article, And this idea then comes into my mind on: How To Deal with Having Broken Family

So, me actually has a separated family. My father leaved us around a year ago. He just disappear for no apparent reason. His last words are, 'Mag-aral kayong mabuti' (Just Study Hard). And that moment, I actually feel sad and depressed not because he leaved us but because I always saw my Mom cry and cry almost everyday. It's really such a good thing that after like a week of my mother's mourning, She just then open her eyes then realize that our father is never going back. She also then realize that there is nothing to worry about anymore because She have us. Me and my sister are still in her place. So she really doesn't have anything to worry because she got us and we can stand at our own even without my father.

So, How do I faced everything that happened? I know a lot of you guys are having the same problem as I did before. So here's how I faced my family issues:

First thing first, FAITH! 

- When you have a heavy problem, Of course, You should always come to the Lord and ask for help. Just pray and everything is gonna be Okay. And also, think of this trial is given by God to measure out how strong we are, How strong out faith is and How strong we are in facing his trials. Just Pray and Trust God on his plans and you will recover for in some time!

Next, Having someone to talked to.

 - When you have a problem, Talking to someone is a very good idea. So in that way, You can release whatever you want to release and by doing that, you can breathe out properly and that actually will make you a lot better. You can release it out into a VERY close friend/best friend, or your church leader or someone you know who is trustworthy.

Next, Have Fun!

- I know you we're thinking, 'How can I have fun! I'm freaking problematic right now!', But having problems doesn't mean that you can't have any fun! Having fun is actually one of the most smart way in clearing everything out. You can go and play sport, Play with your friends, go to the mall, you can do whatever you can to make you happy. You can also invite your mom/dad ( in my case, my Mom) to help them forget even just a little of there relationship problems.


Last Thing: Forgive

- Actually, I'm a little bit hesitated about adding this tip. Because, even me, still doesn't forgive my father because of what he did towards my mother. And seeing the most person you loved, crying, is a really hard scenario to watch. And also, the thing happened is still "fresh" from my memory. But I know, the right time for forgiveness will come but not now, maybe someday. But If you guys are ready to forgive that someone who hurt your mom/dad, Go! Forgiveness is a really great way in moving on. :)

So, I hope you guys are enjoyed my little article here and learned even some things about our topic today. And by the way, I'm sorry If you guys saw/read a lot of wrong grammars. It's my first time so give me some time. Hehe ;)

Thank You Guys so much for reading. I shall talked to you soon. ^_^

- Roda <3

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Hi Everyone! I'm John Christian Roda. A 4th Year Highschool student that wants to do a lot of blogging.
Here in my blog, you can see My Life, My Styles, MY EVERYTHING. I also do some Product Reviews, Some DIY and I also share some highlight of my life.

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